Ask about how their sleep was. Often they had difficulty falling asleep or woke up often at night, unlike most college students, whose sleep is compromised because they stay up late with new friends or because they are hard at work, but could easily sleep at any time.
Find out about their eating habits. Did they lose their appetite? Lose weight? Did they become preoccupied with weight or body image issues and begin restricting their intake? Eating disorders can begin in college when vulnerable students are stressed and have more control over their diet. While weight gain is more common in freshman year, it often is connected to poor stress management skills, and is more often a marker of a student who was struggling academically and then managing stress by overeating.
In the case where the distress came first, it is critical that your patients have a thorough psychiatric evaluation and treatment. It may be possible for them to return to school quickly, but it is most important that they are engaged in effective treatment and in at last partial remission before adding to their stress by attempting to return to school. Often, ambitious students and their parents need to hear this message very clearly from a pediatrician. A rushed return to school may be a set-up for a more protracted and difficult course of illness. For these students, it may be better to have a fresh start in a new semester. Help them (and their parents) to understand that they should use their time off to focus on treatment and good self-care so they might benefit from the many opportunities of college.
For a small minority of college students who do not succeed at college, their social withdrawal, academic deterioration, anxiety, and loss of interest in previous passions may occur alongside more serious psychiatric symptoms such as auditory hallucinations, paranoia, or grandiosity. Any time there is a suggestion of psychotic symptoms in a previously healthy person in the late teens or early 20s, a prompt comprehensive psychiatric evaluation is critical. These years are when most chronic psychotic disorders, such as schizophrenia, are likely to emerge. These patients require a thorough evaluation to distinguish these disorders from other illnesses, especially when they occur with substance use. And these patients require specialized care.
If your patient appears to have any psychotic symptoms, it is critical that you help the family find an excellent psychiatrist, or even a clinic that specializes in thought disorders so that he or she may get the best possible care early.
Dr. Susan D. Swick
There is another class of students who withdraw from college who will need more comprehensive remediation, but not connected to any psychiatric diagnosis. Some young people may not be developmentally ready for college. These are your patients who often were excellent performers in high school, perhaps academically and athletically, but whose performance was more connected to pleasing important adults than to genuine motivating passions or sense of purpose. These young adults may have been drawn into the intense, results-oriented forces that are powerful in many of our high schools. If they did not have enough time or space to explore a host of interests, and to then manage the routine failures, setbacks, and disappointments that are essential to healthy adolescent development, they are going to run out of fuel in college. Such students often are quite dependent on their parents, and struggle with the independence college offers.
Dr. Michael S. Jellinek
If your patients report that they could not muster the same intense work ethic they previously had, without any evidence of a psychiatric illness interfering with motivation, they may need time to finish the developmental work of cultivating a deep and rich sense of their own identity. Some students can do this at college, provided they, their parents and their school offer them adequate time before they have to declare a major. Other students will need to get a job and explore interests with a few courses at a community college, cultivating independence while learning about their own strengths and weaknesses and their genuine interests. This way, when they return to school, they will be motivated by a genuine sense of purpose and self-knowledge.
“Failure to launch” is a critical symptom at a key transitional moment. Pediatric providers can be essential to their patients and families by clarifying the nature of the difficulty and coordinating a reasonable plan to get these young adults back on track to healthy adulthood.
Dr. Swick is physician in chief at Ohana, Center for Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health, Community Hospital of the Monterey (Calif.) Peninsula. Dr. Jellinek is professor emeritus of psychiatry and pediatrics, Harvard Medical School, Boston. Email them at pdnews@mdedge.com.