Hitting a Nerve

Take back a patient who fired you? No way


 

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I refuse to do retreads.

This has nothing to do with my car. If a retread tire gives me the same performance and safety at a lower price, I’m all for it.

Sometimes patients fire me. This is often acrimonious, with them sending me a letter complaining about my competence, bedside manner, personal appearance, staff, office decor, phone system ... whatever. For some reason they weren’t happy with me and instead of just sending a release of records, they decided to let me know in no uncertain terms that they aren’t coming back. We all get these notes.

Dr. Allan M. Block

Dr. Allan M. Block

When I was younger this would really upset me. I took a lot of things personally when I first started out. Now, after almost 20 years on the neurology front lines, it’s just another day. I learned a long time ago that you can’t please everyone or be the doctor they all love. So I fax their chart to wherever they want and move on.

Surprisingly, a few times a year patients will try to come back. Maybe they didn’t like the new doc, or are sorry about their outburst, or can’t find someone else nearby who takes their insurance. So they call and try to make a follow-up. Not surprisingly, they never mention their previous letter. When it’s brought up, they typically claim we misinterpreted it, that they didn’t mean it, or that they’ve decided to forgive me.

This is what I call a retread. A patient who wants to come back after leaving under unpleasant circumstances. I don’t allow it.

To me the doctor-patient relationship is based on trust and objectivity. Once a patient sends an acrimonious letter, it’s very difficult to return to an impartial condition. The fact that they did it once means they may do it again, or think they can get their way with threatening or insulting behavior. These are not things that are good for the connection between us.

So I turn them away. Some just hang up. Others yell, and a few threaten me with legal action. But I don’t back down. Do you want to care for someone who’s done the same to you?

This is a high-stress field. I don’t need the additional distraction of dealing with a toxic medical relationship. If you don’t like me, I have no issue with that. Not everyone does. But once you’ve made that decision, you’re stuck with it.

Dr. Block has a solo neurology practice in Scottsdale, Ariz.

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