In each of these cases, the symptoms suggest that the anxiety the child is experiencing goes beyond what is normal and merits a psychiatric evaluation. A child who begins to seem very sad, sulky, or withdrawn from peers and interests in the setting of sustained anxiety may be developing depression (or may have anxiety as a component of depression) and also needs a psychiatric referral.
Anxiety that is not routine or adaptive can be the visible symptom of many different psychiatric problems, not only anxiety disorders. It is worth noting that children with undiagnosed attention deficit disorder (ADD), subtle developmental disorders, or learning disabilities often present with considerable anxiety about their function and performance in school, as they have faced sustained failure to keep up with their peers academically and sometimes socially.
Adolescents with emerging drug or alcohol problems may present with anxiety symptoms that do not seem connected to their actual stressors. Undiagnosed anxiety disorders can lead to substance abuse as teens attempt not just to feel good, but to feel better. Intense anxiety about weight or about changes in weight that are not discernible to others may signal an emerging eating disorder. Intense and sustained anxiety in the setting of social withdrawal and deteriorating function in adolescents may be the first sign of an emerging thought disorder.
Finally, when parents’ level of anxiety about their children makes it difficult or impossible for them to help their children tolerate and then learn to manage and master their normal or routine anxiety, a referral for a psychiatric evaluation for the child can be helpful. Although the youngster may not have an underlying anxiety disorder, starting therapy with a caring adult who can help the child tolerate this difficult affect will be essential to healthy development.
Most parents will bring their concerns about their children’s distress to their pediatricians, and you should reassure them that no one should worry alone. Most anxiety reflects emotional health and adaptability and is even a force driving healthy development, but sometimes it does signal a psychiatric problem. If the child’s function is impaired, if the anxiety is inappropriate to the stressor, or if the parents are unable to help a child develop healthy coping skills, you also should not worry alone and should make a referral for a psychiatric evaluation.
Dr. Swick is an attending psychiatrist in the division of child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital, Boston, and director of the Parenting at a Challenging Time (PACT) Program at the Vernon Cancer Center at Newton Wellesley Hospital, also in Boston. Dr. Jellinek is professor of psychiatry and of pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, Boston. He is also chief clinical officer at Partners HealthCare, also in Boston.