One year ago, as the sun was setting on a late fall day, Andrés Snitcofsky, a 40-year-old designer from Buenos Aires, Argentina, heard harrowing cries for help. It was the niece and the wife of one of his neighbors: a man in his 60s who the women had found “passed out” in the bedroom. “I did CPR for 5 minutes straight until a friend of the victim came in and asked me to stop, telling me that the man had probably been dead for 2 or 3 hours already. But I had no idea because I’d never seen a dead body before,” Mr. Snitcofsky told this news organization. A few minutes later, the ambulance arrived. The doctor confirmed that there was nothing more that could be done.
Mr. Snitcofsky went home. Nobody had asked for his name or address or phone number. … And it wasn’t because they already knew who he was. In fact, there wasn’t any sort of relationship there. Mr. Snitcofsky had only known his neighbors by sight. His actions that day, however, “did not come without a cost. It took me weeks – months, actually – to put myself together again,” he said. The things he saw, the things he heard, everything about that night played over and over in his head. “I had trouble sleeping. I would play out different scenarios in my head. I questioned myself. I second-guessed myself, criticized myself. It’s like some taboo subject. There’s no one to share the experience with, no one who gets it. But with time, I was able to process the event.
“For 2 months, I talked to my psychologist about it all,” he continued. “That really helped me a lot. In addition to therapy, I reached out to a couple I know – they’re both physicians – and to a firefighter who teaches CPR. Their insight and guidance allowed me to get to a point where I was able to understand that what I did was a good thing and that what I did was all that could have been done. But anyone who finds themselves in the position of having to do CPR – they’re going to be affected in many, many ways. It goes beyond the euphoria of seeing a person come back to life. Of that, I’m quite certain.”
We’ve all seen campaigns encouraging people to learn CPR and to be prepared if the need arises. But in training the public (and even health care professionals), not much, if anything, is said about the “collateral damage”: the psychological and emotional consequences of carrying out the procedure. These especially come into play when you don’t know whether the person survived, when your efforts weren’t able to reverse the sudden cardiac arrest, or when the person you gave CPR to was a loved one – a case that may entail immediate therapeutic interventions to minimize or prevent the risk of suffering long-lasting trauma.
In May 2020, popular American activist and educator Kristin Flanary saw someone suffering cardiac arrest. She stepped in and started doing CPR. And she continued doing CPR … for 10 long minutes. The person she was trying to save was her 34-year-old husband, ophthalmologist and comedian Will Flanary. On Twitter, where she’s known as Lady Glaucomflecken, Ms. Flanary recently shared the following message, putting the topic of CPR and automated external defibrillator training front and center.
“Yes, everyone should learn #CPRandAED. But if we are going to ask people to perform such a brutal task, it’s imperative that we also provide them with the info and resources they need to process it mentally and emotionally. It’s traumatic and life changing. It’s irresponsible and unethical to ask people to help in such a brutal and traumatic way and then neglect to help them in return.” In less than a month, the tweet has racked up over 200,000 views.