When you finish reading this column … on second thought, stop now and read the Oct. 17, 2015, opinion piece titled “Overselling Breast-Feeding.” You will discover a well-researched and thoughtfully crafted article by Courtney Jung, a political science professor at the University of Toronto, in which she dares to carefully dissect one of our most revered sacred cows. The result is a convincing argument for rethinking how we present and promote breastfeeding. I won’t attempt to reconstruct her rationale. You can read it for yourself. But, I suspect that if you spend any part of your day trying to help new parents navigate the choppy waters of those first 6 months, you will find what she has to say strikes more than a few familiar chords.
Like most of you, what I learned about breastfeeding came as on the job training. Marilyn and I started our family while I was still in medical school, giving me the advantage of having watched the process bump along twice before I found myself on the frontline of private practice. I had been taught in school about all the advantages breast milk, but it didn’t take long in the real world to discover that breastfeeding could have a dark side.
I had to become a chameleon. I needed to be strong advocate for the advantages of breast milk and support new mothers as they tried to match the American Academy of Pediatrics’ guidelines. However, there were situations in which despite everyone’s best efforts, the handwriting on the wall said, “This isn’t working.” Then it was time to change my colors and convincingly convey the new truth that even a baby that isn’t breastfed is going to be fine. That a woman who doesn’t breastfeed can and will be a mother every bit as good as one who doesn’t breastfed her baby for 6 months or a year.
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The tension between the party line and reality became so great that in frustration I decided to write my third book about breastfeeding. The result was “The Maternity Leave Breastfeeding Plan” (New York: Simon and Schuster, 2002). The watered-down title was chosen by the publisher. The subtitle, “How to Enjoy Nursing for 3 Months and Go Back to Work Guilt-Free,” was a better reflection of my message that there can be some serious challenges to breastfeeding and not to worry if it doesn’t work. Surprisingly, it found itself on a La Leche League list of recommended books – that is until someone in the organization actually read it.
Although I had always harbored doubts that many of the studies purporting to show the advantages of breastfeeding were poorly controlled, in 2002, I couldn’t find any data to support my concerns. But over the last decade those studies have begun to emerge and Professor Jung has found them and included them in her new book, “Lactivism: How Feminists and Fundamentalists, Hippies and Yuppies, and Physicians and Politicians Made Breastfeeding Big Business and Bad Policy” (New York: Basic Books, 2015).
It will be interesting to see how her observations play to the wider audience it deserves. The discussions may be lively and heated, and public opinion may shift a bit. But what won’t change is that those of us who deal with mothers and babies in a very personal way will still have to struggle with promoting a good product that isn’t always easy to obtain.
Breast milk is good … but it isn’t always better or best.
Dr. Wilkoff practiced primary care pediatrics in Brunswick, Maine, for nearly 40 years. He has authored several books on behavioral pediatrics including “How to Say No to Your Toddler.”