Gay men who become fathers still commonly experience barriers and stigma, but those living in states that offer legal protections experienced less stigma and fewer barriers, according to Ellen C. Perrin, MD, of Tufts Medical Center in Boston and her associates.
A total of 732 fathers living in 47 states, with 1,316 children (average age, 13 years), responded to a survey, they wrote in Pediatrics. More than 80% had a male partner, 64% had earned a bachelor degree or higher, and 81% were white and non-Hispanic.
In 35% of cases, children entered a family through adoption and/or foster care, 14% through the assistance of a pregnancy carrier or surrogate, and 39% through a heterosexual relationship. Families in states with fewer legal protections were more likely to have been formed through heterosexual relationships (odds ratio, 1.42; 95% confidence interval, 1.11-1.81), while families in states with a greater equality rating were more likely to have been formed through a pregnancy surrogate (OR, 1.41; 95% CI, 1.08-1.84). A total of 41% of fathers reported facing barriers to adoption, and 33% reported having difficulty arranging custody of children born in a heterosexual relationship.
Active stigma experienced by the fathers was most commonly experienced in a religious setting, reported by 35%, with other common sources including neighbors (28%), service providers (26%), family members (24%), gay friends (24%), the child’s school (18%), the workplace (16%), and in health care (11%). Children most often experienced active stigma by their friends (33%), followed by a religious setting (17%), school (16%), neighbors (15%), family (11%), and in health care settings (4%).
Active and avoidant stigma was more likely in states with a low equality rating, especially in religious settings and among family members and neighbors, the investigators noted.
“Given their important role as leaders in the community’s support for all families, pediatricians caring for children and their gay fathers should recognize the likelihood that stigma may be a part of the family’s experience and help both families and communities to counteract it. Pediatricians also have the opportunity to be leaders in opposing discrimination in religious and other community institutions,” Dr. Perrin and her associates wrote.
The study received funding from the Gil Foundation, the Arcus Foundation, and private donations. The study authors reported no relevant financial disclosures or conflicts of interest.
SOURCE: Perrin EC et al. Pediatrics. 2019 Jan 14. doi: 10.1542/peds.2018-0683.