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Finding healthcare ‘soul-destroying,’ some turn to online sex work


 

Healthcare workers on OnlyFans

The rising pressures placed on individuals in the health field have coincided with the rise of online platforms that host pornographic content. During the pandemic, professionals worn down by their healthcare work have embraced sites like OnlyFans as lower-risk, lower-stress, and potentially higher-paying additions or alternatives.

“It’s quite exploitative to work for such low pay in harsh conditions,” Mr. Cowe told this news organizaation of his experience as a dementia care assistant. “It’s soul-destroying. You feel like, ‘It doesn’t matter how many hours I work, it doesn’t matter what I do, I’m still going to be in this same financial position.’ ”

Mr. Cowe earned the equivalent of a year’s salary from his healthcare assistant job in his first 22 days on OnlyFans. Within 8 months, he had earned £150,000, or approximately $205,000.

As an emergency medical services (EMS) worker in New York City, 23-year-old Lauren Kwei lifted obese bariatric patients, administered cardiopulmonary resuscitation to unresponsive recipients, and transported elderly patients and children with terminal illnesses to hospice. She earned $25 an hour, which she says was insufficient for life in one of the world’s most expensive cities. So, in addition to her paramedic work, Ms. Kwei posted photos and videos on OnlyFans to help pay for rent and groceries during the pandemic.

Ms. Kwei started her OnlyFans as a means of paying for necessities like rent and groceries, which her wage as an emergency medical services worker couldn’t cover entirely.

In December 2020, Ms. Kwei got a call from a New York Post reporter who informed her he was writing an article outing her OnlyFans side gig. Ms. Kwei immediately deleted her account on the site for fear of being penalized by her employer, SeniorCare.

“Leave her alone,” U.S. Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez wrote on Twitter in response to the New York Post article. “The actual scandalous headline here is ‘Medics in the United States need two jobs to survive.’ ”

The article quoted an anonymous male paramedic who said Ms. Kwei should have been “pulling extra shifts, instead of pulling off [her] clothes” to earn more money. Ms. Kwei says such advice fails to acknowledge the intensity of the job. “Why would I pick up overtime shifts doing manual labor,” she says, “when I could be doing [OnlyFans] from the comfort of my own home?”

The future of the healthcare/sex work relationship

Ms. Kwei is young enough to receive health insurance through her parents, and Mr. Cowe has access to free healthcare through the NHS. But many sex workers — particularly full-service sex workers, who carry out their work in person — have limited access to services such as healthcare and unemployment benefits. Pandemic restrictions have concurrently driven full-service sex work further underground and therefore deepened the health and safety risks associated with its criminalization.

As health workers become increasingly involved in sex work, advocates in both fields are pushing for healthcare systems to involve sex workers.

“Just as we would do with supporting any group, it’s about understanding any specific barriers or specific problems that they’re encountering, and understanding what they think would help, and working together on that solution,” Ms. Bates says of supporting medical students who engage in sex work.

Tlaleng Mofokeng, MD, UN Special Rapporteur on the right to health, says it is crucial for healthcare organizations to partner with sex worker organizations when it comes to planning the resourcing and budgeting of the public health system in order to meet sex workers’ needs. “While we wait for national policy to change and while we wait for decriminalization,” she says, “tangible things can be done to ensure the provision of equitable services that are aligned with the respect of [sex workers’] rights and the restoration of their dignity.”

Today, healthcare professionals can expect to work with classmates, colleagues, and patients who are involved in sex work and who do not fit the socioeconomic stereotypes associated with sex workers. The number of medical students and healthcare workers engaging in sex work is likely to continue to rise as these individuals struggle to find financial and emotional support within the health sector. Ultimately, many health workers and sex workers share a common goal: to be involved in healthcare systems that respect their work and meet their basic needs.

Mr. Cowe doubts he will ever return to the healthcare industry, owing in part to the stigma against sex workers. “I would feel quite unwelcome,” he says. “[The publicity I received] probably made it not possible for me to go back, but even so, I wouldn’t have a desire to because I was just so burnt out in the end.”

Ms. Kwei is taking a break from her EMS work because of the emotional and financial toll it took, but she plans to return in the future. In the meantime, she is back on OnlyFans and advocating for higher wages for EMS workers as a member of the Emergency Medical Services Public Advocacy Council (EMSPAC). “In order to be a good paramedic, my mental health needs to be on point,” she says. “Hopefully down the line, when I decide to pick up EMS [work] again, I can find a job that pays me enough.”

A version of this article first appeared on Medscape.com.

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