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“Their whole world has collapsed around them, as they have lost a provider of love, affection, developmental support, and in many cases a provider of critical financial support,” he said. “The federal government has an unparalleled ability to direct resources and attention and shape policy at lower levels of government, and its leadership is critical if we want to ensure care for COVID-bereaved children in all corners of the country.”
At least one state thus far is moving toward legislation to help this population. In California, a state with a high number of children who have lost a caregiver, the Hope, Opportunity, Perseverance, and Empowerment (HOPE) for Children Act has been introduced into the state legislature. If passed into law, children who lost a parent or caregiver to COVID-19 and are in the state’s foster care system or a low-income household would be eligible for a state-funded trust fund.
But while this is a start, the consequences of caregiver loss go far beyond the economics, and can include depression, PTSD, substance use disorder, lower levels of educational attainment, and subsequent lower levels of employment. However, most children (90%-95%) will experience a normative course of grief, according to the COVID Collaboration, which can be managed through family and social support systems. Community-based interventions, such as grief camps, peer support groups, or a mentoring program can also be very helpful.
Camp Erin, for example, is a bereavement camp for children aged 6-17 years. It is run by Eluna, a national nonprofit that supports children and families impacted by grief or addiction. “Camp Erin is the largest national bereavement program for children who are grieving the loss of a family member or caregiver, or other significant person in their lives,” said Mary FitzGerald, CEO of Eluna. “Many families needed help with these new dynamics of loss due to COVID.”
Led by bereavement professionals and volunteers, Camp Erin is a weekend experience that combines grief education and emotional support with traditional and fun activities. “It’s a safe environment for children to explore grief, and be with other children who are also grieving,” said Ms. FitzGerald. “There are 33 locations and it’s free of charge.”
Dr. Treglia emphasized the necessity of providing immediate financial assistance through well-established funding streams. “For example, Temporary Assistance to Needy Families, Supplemental Nutritional Assistance Program, and Social Security Survivor’s Benefits are a good start to reinforce their economic stability and keep financial disaster from piling onto their personal tragedy,” he said. “We also need to buttress community-based organizations and schools to ensure they have the resources and grief competence to identify bereaved children and can either provide services directly or refer them to organizations that can.”
He added that the infrastructure and knowledge already exist and “it’s a matter of making strategic investments at the necessary scale.”