STANFORD, CALIF. — The 2005 federal dietary guidelines could do more harm than good if parents try to push their children to eat specific amounts of foods recommended in the guidelines, Ellyn Satter said at a conference on perinatal and pediatric nutrition.
Overly controlling the way children eat undermines their innate self-regulation in feeding, which often leads to obesity, said Ms. Satter, author of several books, including “Your Child's Weight: Helping Without Harming” (Madison, Wis.: Kelcy Press, 2005). Organizers of the conference credited the larger-than-usual turnout in part to Ms. Satter's presence on the program.
The 2005 edition of Dietary Guidelines for Americans emphasizes nutrition but is not grounded in feeding dynamics, said Ms. Satter of Madison, Wis.
By listing recommended amounts of food groups (cups, ounces, or teaspoons of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, milk, oil) that are needed to meet daily nutrient requirements, the guidelines cross the “division of responsibility” that should allow the child to decide how much to eat, she said in an interview. (See box.)
Although well intentioned, the guidelines could help undermine children's internal regulators and contribute to obesity. “You're creating the very thing you're trying to prevent,” she said at the conference, which was jointly sponsored by Symposia Medicus and Stanford University.
Janet C. King, Ph.D., chair of the scientific advisory committee behind the dietary guidelines, said that the federal recommendations and Ms. Satter's approach are not that far apart. Parents need to know the desired amounts of food groups in order to put a healthy variety of foods on the table. That information is provided by the dietary guidelines. Then it's up to behavioral specialists like Ms. Satter to offer advice on implementing the guidelines, Dr. King said in an interview (see story below).
“You have to know what your [nutritional] goals are, and then you need the systems of behaviorists to help people make these changes. We would agree strongly with that,” said Dr. King, a senior scientist at Children's Hospital Oakland (Calif.) Research Institute.
“If you follow the food patterns and recommended servings, you'll meet your nutritional requirements,” she said.
Ms. Satter said that one of the biggest problems she sees in family eating dynamics is the overrestriction of children's access to foods.
The federal dietary guidelines have a positive focus rather than a focus on what not to eat, Dr. King pointed out. Parents should “focus on what are good foods, focus on the nutrient-rich foods, and then also keep in mind that you need to balance intake with output,” she said. “We felt that it was important to develop a foundation for good food habits early in life.”
Children already have that foundation, if parents will only let go of the need to control it and pay proper attention to their own responsibilities in feeding, Ms. Satter said.
Doing a good job with feeding and parenting means having regular and reliable sit-down family meals and sit-down snack breaks that include a variety of tasty, wholesome foods. Parents should regularly include “forbidden” foods at meals and as snacks so that children won't be compelled to sneak around and overeat them at other times. This implies trusting children to decide whether and how much to eat.
Clinicians should ask parents questions about past and present feeding habits, as well as teach about developmental stage-appropriate feeding and encourage the division of responsibility for feeding. Emphasizing growth tracking—not arbitrary growth cutoffs—can help parents accept consistent growth as normal, even if the child's weight and height fall outside average limits.
“Accept the child you have, not the one you thought you should have,” she said.
Ms. Satter applies her division of responsibilities to physical activity as well as to feeding. Parents control the structure of, safety of, and opportunities for activity. Children decide whether to move, the manner of moving, and how much to move. There is one item that she believes in restricting, however: television.
“Child overweight isn't just about eating too much and exercising too little. It is about our failure as a culture on all levels to do good parenting,” she said.
Parent, Child Make Healthy Eating Team
When parents appropriately divide the responsibilities of feeding between parents and children, healthy eating habits flourish, Ms. Satter said.
Here's how she divides the duties:
▸ Parent: What, when, and where. The parent chooses and prepares a variety of foods that will allow predictable growth in the child. Structure is key: providing regular, reliable meals and sit-down snacks, and not letting the child graze for food or beverages between times. The parent should make eating time pleasant, communicate age-appropriate expectations of mastery of eating, and accept the child's size and shape.